Richard Hogan: Why do people have affairs?
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- "Did he/she ever love me?’"
- "Was it all a lie?"
- "Why wasn’t I enough?"
- "Why did they marry me?"
- "Did they settle for me?"
- "I don’t know who they are anymore!"
The collapse of concrete norms that an affair can cause, illuminates the power an affair has to destroy everything that was once good and wholesome about the relationship.
- "What did this affair mean to you?"
- "What did you find in that relationship that you couldn’t find with me?"
- "What do you value about us?"
- “Do you want to go forward in this relationship?"
- "What does the future look like for us?"